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How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back Forever?

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How to Get Back with Your Ex Girlfriend?

That’s a question I’ve been asked quite a few times in my life.

And every time I responded honestly by saying “I don’t know.”

White lesbian couple in love having breakfast and hugging eachotherWAIT…WAIT! Don’t click away from this article just because I admitted the fact I cannot help them. After all, everyone’s case is different.

And quite frankly, some people are better apart. But if you’re sure that rekindling with your ex is the right way to go, then I’m willing to lend my advice.

As a bisexual who has experienced her fair share of romance and breakups, I can say with 100% certainty that it is possible to get your ex back.

You just got to know how to press the right emotional triggers. And I learned it all from the book Meet Your Sweet 2nd Chance.

If you told me that a cheesy book had the answer to my burning questions a year back, I wouldn’t have believed you. But it managed to turn me into a believer.

Will it work for your needs? Let’s find out in this Meet Your Sweet 2nd Chance review!

Oh by the way, click here if you want to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back instead.

Meet Your Sweet 2nd Chance and How Does it Work?

This a book written by Amy Waterman and Mirabelle Summers based on their own experiences as people first, and dating/relationship experts second.

As the name implies, the topic is about meeting your sweetheart for the second time, implying a fresh start.

Both Amy and Mirabelle are respected authors with many raving fans around the world.

Through this book, they teach not only how to get the ex back but also the ropes on living a fulfilling relationship. How? By understanding yourself first.

This simple program will make you look back on the relationship you had, identify where it all went wrong, and give you step by step guide on how to undo the mistakes.

Here’s a summary:

  • How to look inward to identify your own mistakes that may have led to the breakup
  • How to get out of the constant state of self-pity and regain your self-esteem and happiness
  • Recall the best moments you both shared to figure out what made you so attractive to your ex in the first place
  • How to create a mutual understanding and respectful relationship that’s all about give and take. No power imbalances allowed!
  • How to keep your ex so that you both can rekindle the old flame and live happily ever after

How I, as a bisexual, view and approach the whole concept of a relationship isn’t much different from any straight, gay, or pansexual person.

So, it’s safe to say that if Meet Your Sweet 2nd Chance worked for me, it would work for you too.

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What are the Contents of the Book?

White couple in love hugging in the forestThis 199-page book is split into 5 key steps that teach everything there is to learn.

Here’s a summary:

Step 1: Get through the grief

Getting over the grief of the loss of a loved one is an essential step in gaining perspective.

We tend NOT to see how things are when we’re mourning and make mistakes as a result. This module of the book will teach you how not to make such mistakes of vulnerability.

You’ll learn how to focus on yourself first and be more comfortable with the situation instead of wallowing in self-pity.

Step 2: Reflect

Without reflecting over your former relationship, you’ll never figure out what not to do.

This module tugged my heartstrings as I identified so many things I had done wrong to my girlfriend. Or at least, I could’ve done better.

And no, I’m not talking about forgetting to pick up the groceries or forgetting her birthday.

This section of the book helped me own up to my share of the blame and come out as a stronger individual.

Step 3: Channel your Anger

Anger, like jealousy, is a toxic emotion that corrodes our heart from the inside out.

But it’s quite natural to be angry when you’ve split into bad terms or feel like you’ve been wronged. Believe me; I’ve been there.

And I would have probably still been there if I had not tried out the 3-Step Plan to Deal with Anger. This, I believe, is the turning point I needed to back life back on track.

Step 4: Initiate contact

Romantic white couple dining in restaurantThe moment you’ve been waiting for! This portion of the book will tell if when you should contact your ex and in what manner.

It utilizes the push-pull theory of attraction to help you learn how to reignite the old flame. This is about new beginnings.

Step 5: Discuss the breakup

I know this might be an uncomfortable topic, but you’ve got to do it sooner or later.

If you want a healthy relationship. There’s no way to look forward to the future without letting demons of the past rest at ease.

In this section, you’ll learn how to communicate with empathy and criticize without coming off as a total douche. Yeah, I mean that. And I know that I can be a major pain to deal with sometimes.

Through proactive criticism, you’ll learn to understand one another better and communicate in a way that sustains a loving relationship.

Will Meet Your Sweet 2nd Chance Work for Me?

Yes! The best thing about this book is that it doesn’t preach any “one size fits all” bullshit.

I have gone down that road, believe me. From asking my friends for advice to seeing shrinks, I’ve done it all to come out of the miserable shell I was in after my breakup.

While someone said, “Go call her and beg to take you back,” another commented “No more contact! It’ll make you seem desperate.”

White couple in love gesturing a heart with fingersMy therapist, though I admit he’s a pretty good one, had me talking about my childhood and past traumas. That didn’t help either.

It was a fine effort, but the problem that was staring me in the eyes had nothing to do with how I was raised.

I knew my relationship deserved a second chance; it’s just that I wasn’t confident enough to pursue it. This book gave me the final push that I needed to initiate contact with my ex and work towards a resolution.

A Word to the Wise

Listen to me carefully: DO NOT pin all your hopes because countless variables go into a relationship.

And to expect this book to be a magic bullet that solves all your mistakes would be plain foolish.

Also, this book doesn’t teach you to be selfish or manipulative. On the contrary, it shows the path to be more vulnerable and selfless.

The advice worked for me because of two reasons:

  1. I had clarity on why I wanted to patch up with my ex-girlfriend
  2. I was always unwilling to compromise on my values of practicing empathy

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I win her heart back?

Below are four simple steps you can utilize:

  1. Give your ex-girlfriend some space – Make sure that you give your ex some breathing room. Allow your ex some time to reflect what went wrong in your relationship.
  2. Reflect on what went wrong – No relationship is the same. Now you are giving your ex some time to think it's your turn to reflect your relationship. Writing it all down helps a lot.
  3. Work on yourself – Now that you have addressed all the things that went wrong, it's time to work on the fixes. At the start, it might be quite challenging as you probably have to change a few things about your behavior.
  4. Enjoy your own company – You shouldn't be too hard for yourself. Have some quality time for yourself. Read a book, go exercise, do things that make feel more comfortable. If you're comfortable on your own, your ex will surely notice that.

Will my ex come back after no contact?

The answer is straightforward; NO!

It's undoubtedly possible that having no contact makes your ex misses you and start to doubt about the breakup. However, if you are not initiating contact with your ex after a while, you will not come back together.

Therefore you must contact her after some period. Read our full article to learn precisely how to do this!

How do your know if your ex is still in love with you?

There are a lot of signs that can tell you if your ex still loves you, here are a few:

  1. Your ex calls you without any specific reason.
  2. Your ex suddenly admits he did everything wrong in the relationship with you.
  3. She keeps talking about the good times you had together.
  4. She is the first one to make you feel better when you are upset.
  5. Love quotes appearing on your phone from her.
  6. You are getting messages from her when she is drunk.
  7. You are not getting all your personal belongings back from her.

Final Words

I think I’ve kept you all under suspense for quite a while now. In case, you are wondering, my girlfriend’s name is Sarah, and I love her with all my life. I would have loved her even if we didn’t patch up but being together makes my life complete.

And I owe a lot of it to Meet Your Sweet 2nd Chance. You should give it a read as well to know how to get your ex girlfriend back.

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